Add "allowArrayLike" opt to destructuring and spread transforms (#11265)

packages/babel-plugin-transform-spread/test/fixtures/allowArrayLike/simple/exec.js

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+var p2 = { 0: "b", 1: "c", 2: "d", length: 3 };
+
+var arr = ["a", ...p2, "e"];
+
+expect(arr).toEqual(["a", "b", "c", "d", "e"]);